I just came to say I feel the same way. There aren't fine lines in people's heads. There's huge gray area especially when and comes to sexuality.... Well, people only do what they do when they believe it's right, no exceptions. If that's the case, isn't it a bit far, if not unctuous, to take definite stance/action based on someone else's thoughts/actions that are so personal? It's like building a tower made of butter... Geez, I'm not making any sense... I need a decoder for my own brain.